Deciding to do a boudoir can be very intimidating and scary.
First of it is a nerve wracking experience , something you most likely have not done, not to mention you are doing this completely new and vulnerable experience with someone new probably.
Now yes boudoir can be scary, nerve wracking, intimidating etc
but it does not need to be. People have this idea of boudoir that women need to be and look like what they see on TV in victoria secret ads and well ads every where. Or that you need to do your full session with nothing on.
Both of these could not be further from the truth.
If your choice on doing a boudoir is because you do not look like what others do - that i your exact reason to do a boudoir
No you do not look like everyone else, you do not look like those women in the ads
1) you are not supposed to, those women have been photoshopped , air brushed and made to look like that - trust me when i say no one, NO ONE not even the most famous of famous looks like that without A LOT of help from products and programs
2) You do not need to look like them to be beautiful like you!
You are perfect the way you are , the way you look is beautiful and that is what we are capturing, your true, raw and natural beauty. This is what you look like, this is who you are, this is who you need to fall in love with again.
Whether you gained weight, lost weight, just had a baby, had babies 10 years ago. stretch marks, cellulite, beauty marks , scars and more --- it makes you who you are. It makes you imperfectly perfect. Not only that all of those things show proof , to you and the world , that your body is a warrior, that you are a warrior.
That there is nothing in this world you cannot beat, there is no defeat for you and that body of yours is the armor you wear through it all.
Is a boudoir scary? Nerve wracking? yes! It is
Do you need to have confidence coming in - hell no
Another massive thing is people believing you need to have confidence to do one of these sessions
You do not- i repeat YOU DO NOT need to have confidence for a boudoir session
That is exactly what a boudoir session is supposed to do for you.
I am expecting you to come in nervous, not very confident and scared.
That is normal! It is my job to change all of that
It is my job to make you feel comfortable, to make those nerves go away and to put that confidence in you!
We do this daily, at sessions and in our group to lift up, empower and boost ladies up each and every day
We will do the same for you. We will be your personal cheerleaders from the moment you message to the finish of our session and even before and after
We will encourage, raise you up and make sure you know you are rocking your session.
You do not need to have confidence to come in
but i guarantee you will have it when you walk out!
Deciding to a boudoir can be a massive choice, between the fear, the unknown and so much more
but you can never grow unless you take risk, and the best growth is personal growth
and falling in love with yourself again.
Take the chance, make the choice to do something for yourself, and do not be afraid to fall in love with who you are now
cause that is all that will happen, you will gain a new found love for yourself!
Take the chance - do the boudoir
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